“hold off, So is this a romantic date?” Podcast Episode 105: finest Sex ever before | Autostraddle

Our very own episode subject this week is Best Sex extremely our company is speaking about… ideal sex we have now ever endured! We are accompanied by Autostraddle blogger, poet, and reporter Dani Janae even as we go into some passionate anecdotes with an in-depth discussion by what can make good gender effective. And we spend a lot period to my sexual hang ups that I may or might not have really accomplished some focus on this summer!

Appear when it comes to lesbian movie-themed online game, remain when it comes down to coming.

SHOW NOTES

+
The 200 Greatest Lesbian+ Videos record
that Christina pulled the game from.

+ For those who haven’t study Dani’s
Anatomy of a Mango
series you probably must.

+
This is basically the essay
I composed concerning person We discuss regarding the occurrence. It’s only already been 2 yrs but much has evolved!

+ The summer months has gone by so we nevertheless stan Olivia Rodrigo. Watch the
“raw” music movie
.

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Dani:

The cat and the dog were in the room so there was actually cat-and-dog tresses every where. And thus, I became surely having an allergic reaction although we happened to be sex. But the climax ended up being like chef’s kiss. It actually was the perfect, perfect experience literally.

Christina:

We question if it’s anything concerning hives that really included a little

je ne sais quoi

to that particular orgasmic experience.

Theme track plays

Drew:

Thanks for visiting

Wait, So Is This a romantic date?

Christina:


Hold off, Is This a Date?

is an Autostraddle podcast everything about, you thought it, dating.

Drew:

Yay! I Really Like dating. I’m Drew Gregory. I am an author for Autostraddle, and a filmmaker, and simply common trans gay individual across net and… I happened to be planning to say world, but it is really a lot more like L. A. and New York.

Christina:

I adore this globe-trotting gay personality you’re facing here in 2021.

Drew:

I would like that. Yeah, it’s money for hard times.

Christina:

Yeah. I will be your other host, Christina Tucker, also a writer for Autostraddle, deranged loud homosexual on the net. Just form of away right here, writing, getting gay, doing whatever you can every moment to attempt to sort out this life that people’re residing.

Drew:

You are actually carrying it out. You are really working during that existence.

Christina:

Frankly, its all i could do. Which is all We have, it is the only choice.

Drew:

I really honor the attempt.

Christina:

The make an effort to stay?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

Yeah. Actually, truly fearless of us to also attempt it. You aren’t completely wrong, you aren’t completely wrong. Would you be thinking about playing somewhat game these days, Drew?

Drew:

Oh my personal God, I’m very excited. Can’t delay observe what you have for my situation.

Christina:

I’m very happy you mentioned that since you completely have to state yes, because that’s part of this deal that we’ve developed right here. So you might know about the fact that on autostraddle.com, website, we’ve a listing of 200 lesbian movies.

Drew:

I realize of it. I may wrote it.

Christina:

You’ve probably. The thing I did is move an array of 10 of those flicks. I’ve held these to the most known 50. I’ll supply you with the plot key words as chosen by users on IMDb and you are attending have to you know what flick really.

Drew:

Okay. I just desire the listeners, anywhere you happen to be, to understand that I am not saying likely to pull-up the list. I believe you got that right, am We let’s assume that’s correct in how I should really be respecting this game?

Christina:

I believe that is really respectful and that I think’s fair. I additionally style of depend on that is going be a thing that pops into their heads rather easy for you, i did not get as well left.

Drew:

I’ve a terrible mind, but yes, I’m going to attempt to set folks up for reduced expectations.

Christina:

Fair adequate.

Drew:

Therefore if I do really well, it really is like sort of strike all of them out, assuming I do not prosper, are going to similar, “Well, she pointed out…” Anyways, carry on. Let us start this.

Christina:

Let’s begin. I’ll start with pretty general ones and I also will get a lot more specific as we go, because many of them tend to be actually precisely what the film is in two words. So we’re going to just be sure to focus on a wider knowledge right here.

Drew:

I enjoy it.

Christina:

Our very first movie: medications is the basic storyline phrase. New york, nyc will be the next. Hate crime may be the next.

Drew:

Okay.

It Really Is Everywhere Me Personally.

Christina:

Yes, it really is! See, we knew you’d be able to perform this.

Drew:

Great.

Christina:

We positively knew you’d be able to perform this.

Drew:

Additionally, I just need to try to let individuals realize that that is one of the more underrated lesbian movies, while really need to see it. And Leisha Hailey because motion picture has become my personal phone back ground for two years now. Therefore just a great little reality here for all of you.

Christina:

We like that. All right, flick number 2. “unfamiliar father,” organ donor, cemetery, loss of son. Oh, she actually is thinking.

Drew:

I’m like i will definitely fully grasp this predicated on — wait, unknown dad, death of son, body organ donor. Oh,

About My Personal Mama.

Christina:

There its, see.

Drew:

Another one of my favorites.

Christina:

It’s very exciting observe the things that folks choose tend to be a plot key phrase that they need to pull from all of these movies. I’m additionally perhaps not reading some of the people being only lesbian for the reason that it seems similar to a gimme.

Drew:

That is the way I make a lot of the list because if you look up lesbian flicks, that which you discovered had been the old Autostraddle listing or some databases that are not extremely detailed, so I would actually scroll through databases associated with the keywords of lesbian, lesbian kissing, this stuff like girls kissing, these things, to find films in which they are perhaps not thought of as a lesbian movie because they’re a little bit more interesting, or perhaps slightly much less immediate, that is certainly how I discovered a few of the flicks which are now from the record, very full circle.

Christina:

Listen, IMDb keyword phrases to arrive convenient for all of us all the time. That one, individuals moved untamed on this subject one. Thus simply attending read some arbitrary words for your requirements. Hey, whistling, woman, black sporting events bra, river, stomping out a cigarette, face to face accident.

Drew:

On-the-job accident? Oh, I Was Thinking I Got it and, well—

Christina:

Icy, in parentheses, the heat.

Drew:

Due to the fact initially I was planning to say

Foxfire,

but the on-the-job accident turned myself up. Working collision.

Christina:

Do you want even more?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

Pickup truck crashes through a fence.

Drew:

Would it be

Miseducation of Cameron Article?

Christina:

It’s not.

Drew:

Because on the job accident would be a really terrible way of describing any particular one for the homosexual because you’re wanting to convert to maybe not gayness, attempts to mutilate on their own or does mutilate by themselves. That’d be quite rigorous, but I didn’t know because of the IMDb thinkers. Okay, wait, this is certainly fooling myself upwards.

Christina:

Are you wanting even more from me personally?

Drew:

Truck through a fence. I’m sure its something that I am not… Yeah, keep going.

Christina:

Reference to a school loan. Normally therefore nuts.

Drew:

Hold off, maybe you have viewed this flick?

Christina:

I have seen this motion picture.

Drew:

Can it be crazy that I’m not getting hired?

Christina:

Its some wild. I can present annually, if you want a year.

Drew:

Should you decide provide myself per year, I’ll positively obtain it.

Christina:

Okay. 2016 will be your year.

Drew:

2016. Okay, let me know what it is.

Christina:

Simple fact is that film,

Select Ladies,

2016.

Drew:

Oh! Yeah.

Christina:

I really believed pickup crashes through a barrier would enable you to get, but I also simply love they only pulling-out nouns and simply becoming like, “male.” Would be that what you think?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

Okay.

Drew:

That’s an excellent motion picture. I have to note that again.

Christina:

Its. Its outstanding film.

Drew:

Yeah, its a really great film.

Christina:

Fine, our next film. Kissing whilst having gender.

Drew:

The best particular both, possibly, somehow.

Christina:

Seduction, dude farm.

Drew:

Is it

Desert Hearts?

Christina:

Yeah. Thus I had been like, “Okay, you have got receive that after that one.” One other one I became browsing offer you was actually — “nipples” was the really conspicuously featured. And that I was like, “Sure, which part of that film.”

Drew:

God,

Desert Hearts.

You understand how absolutely each one of these frustrating people online attempting to end up being Shane. Sorry, I mean, if you’re wanting to be Shane, we recognize you. But me personally, my frustrating thing is the fact that I’m attempting to end up being Cay. Cay where motion picture is similar to definitely just who i believe of as the particular lesbian that i wish to be.

Christina:

Yeah, that’s true, can verify. Okay, are we prepared for the after that one?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

Year—

Drew:

Wait, no, I have something else to express about

Desert Hearts.

Christina:

Yes.

Drew:

After the last time we re-watched it around summer time, it type of delivered myself into a little spiral, and that I texted this earlier semi-closeted person who I’d sort of begun tentatively willing to time or go out whatever, and who had disappeared for 30 days, and I had abadndoned because Really don’t ask people to date me personally. But I just ended up being love, “Okay.” I watched

Desert Hearts

and I had been love, “i suppose possibly often people have their own internalized whatever.” And that I texted her and I mentioned, “When we never ever fulfill, i do believe you’re going to regret it.” And in addition we did meet, to make sure that’s just what

Desert Hearts

is capable of doing to you personally.

Christina:

Wow, that is a really effective endorsement.

Drew:

We most likely should never have satisfied. We probably needs only let it be. But anyways, progressing, next motion picture.

Christina:

All of our then film, metaphysics, world during beginning credits — what that means, it really is your decision — highschool soccer, Chicago, Illinois.

Drew:

Oh,

Princess Cyd.

Christina:

There you go.

Drew:

That’s another great motion picture. I prefer that I keep getting astonished by this list that I’d an extremely powerful turn in ranking. It is not my personal positioning, but used to do have a huge suppose when you look at the position and I like it.

Christina:

Yeah. I recently desire to be clear for you and all of our listeners — again, I selected from top 50, thus these are good ones. On the good ones, they’re good people. I Understand Drewwill continually state it is a fantastic film after each one, but—

Drew:

They’re good movies, you guys should see all of them.

Christina:

Fine. Short skirt with pumps.

Drew:

Like it.

Christina:

Cock blocked, mini skirt with footwear.

Drew:

What i’m saying is, could it possibly be

Blockers?

Christina:

It’s not. That could be as well simple, I think, for

Blockers.

Drew:

I don’t bear in mind any miniskirts, but—

Christina:

Female back nudity.

Drew:

Okay. Hold off an extra. Okay, just what a moment. Okay, dick blocked, mini dress, feminine backside nudity.

Christina:

Mm-hmm (affirmative). Break dance.

Drew:

Will it be

Certain?

Christina:

It isn’t.

Drew:

No, I would personally love a break moving scene.

Christina:

Everyone loves some slack dancing scene in

Bound.

Drew:

A break dancing scene.

Christina:

I’m going to offer you: English lady abroad.

Drew:

English woman overseas? This is someone else where I believe we undoubtedly should get it.

Christina:

I’ll need to present a fairly obvious any sooner or later, to ensure thatshould help.

Drew:

Okay, offer me a clear one.

Christina:

Undercover representative.

Drew:

Is it

D.E.B.S?

Christina:

It is really not

D.E.B.S.

It really is adjacent to

D.E.B.S.,

sort of movie a good idea. Listed here is another one, intrigue.

Drew:

Okay, wait, there’s not that lots of genre motion pictures.

Christina:

There aren’t, that is correct.

Drew:

Undercover agent. Well, perhaps they may be making use of the phase, is-it

The Handmaiden?

Christina:

It is far from.

Drew:

Okay, I didn’t think so. Undercover agent.

Christina:

Are you wanting your 12 months?

Drew:

I Was Thinking that… Sure.

Christina:

Your own year is 2017.

Drew:

Undercover broker.

Christina:

I am very sorry. You’re going to feel thus dumb as I say the subject of the one.

Drew:

Oh no.

Christina:

I am truly sorry about this, but that is kind of just the means the cookie crumbles.

Drew:

Oh, its

Carol.

Christina:

No, it is not

Carol.

Drew:

No, it says 2015.

Christina:

Yes, I’m Sure that. It is not

Carol.

Drew:

But there’s an undercover — the guy, this is where I happened to be thinking. Okay, the facts? How come it create me personally feel foolish?

Christina:

It Really Is

Atomic Blonde,

you dummy.

Drew:

Oh, that’s inside the leading 50?

Christina:

Really. I understand.

Drew:

Oh, okay.

Christina:

Fine. We have four even more, you ready?

Drew:

I really don’t believe silly for the reason that it one I… I mean, i do believe

Atomic Blonde

is actually enjoyable, but I do not imagine it’s fantastic. That will not be inside my private top 50. I really do want the whole world to find out that I know that

Carol

came out in 2015. My personal head damage. I recently want the world to know that. Anyways, carry on.

Christina:

The whole world today understands that, the record is reflected. All righty: bistro, feeling of scent, novelist, mention of the a hamburger, mention of Larry King, according to memoir, alcoholic, theft, woman wears eyeglasses, living by yourself, destroying evidence.

Drew:

The mention of Larry King is really—

Christina:

Its a very odd one.

Drew:

Mention of Larry King, damaging research.

Christina:

Cat.

Drew:

Oh, would it be

Can You Previously Forgive Myself?

Christina:

Its.

Drew:

I needed to redeem myself. I found myself truly in a slump there.

Christina:

You nailed it. I do believe you have indeed there, In my opinion you positively had gotten indeed there. Fine, three more, our leading three. I do believe these ones would be possible for you because I know you.

Drew:

Great, fine, well…

Christina:

I’m sure, but I’m stating, isn’t it time?

Drew:

Okay, yeah.

Christina:

Psychological state, drug overdose.

Drew:

Could it be

Foxfire?

Christina:

No. Photographer.

Drew:

Oh,

Greater.

Christina:

There we get. Tattoo, lady group.

Drew:

Is this

Foxfire?

Christina:

Yeah.

Drew:

Oh, I’m sure

Foxfire.

Christina:

I found myself like, “Oh, she is going to merely hold guessing

Foxfire

until i recently offer the woman

Foxfire.”

Drew:

The secret usually i enjoy

Foxfire

and I keep willing to consider

Foxfire.

Christina:

I mean, whomst in our midst?

Drew:

Angelina Jolie, gosh.

Christina:

Fine. This one, one among them is actually—

Drew:

This is actually the final one?

Christina:

This is actually the finally one. This can be our finally any. Church, denial, family members interactions.

Drew:

Could it be

Miseducation of Cameron Article?

Christina:

It isn’t.

Drew:

Would it be

But I’m a Cheerleader?

Christina:

Its, yes.

Drew:

Indeed. Comedic

Miseducation of Cameron Article.

Christina:

Jokes on laughs. To ensure that was actually the overall game i am calling, How Well Does Drew Know Lesbian Movies???

Drew:

I favor just how great we’re creating brands in regards to our games.

Christina:

Yeah, is in reality mortifying that I also had written that in title of a Google Doc, what was I considering? That does not also look really good inside my Google Docs.

Drew:

I got a very good time and that I’m actually grateful that i eventually got to tell all of the audience about every motion pictures which they should see. And now we’ll place the list for the tv show notes.

Christina:

Completely.

Drew:

I would personally declare that record has become at a spot where In my opinion you would get anything from enjoying all 200 flicks. Initial form of record, there is some stuff on the website that I was not as happy with. There still is stuff In my opinion that I really don’t individually but i do believe that overall, there is a certain quality control after this latest upgrade that i’m extremely pleased with and I believe they are all really worth watching.

Christina:


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